MANAGE LIKE A MOTHER: TRANSLATING "MOM SKILLS" INTO "BOSS SKILLS"—WITH VALERIE COCKERELL

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December 28, 2023

MANAGE LIKE A MOTHER: TRANSLATING "MOM SKILLS" INTO "BOSS SKILLS"—WITH VALERIE COCKERELL

Modern Mommy Doc

CATEGORY: The Working Mom Life You ACTUALLY Want

About Our Guest:

Valerie Cockerell was born and raised in France where she graduated from Institut Pitiot-Lyon II with a degree in Business hospitality. She participated in the World Showcase Fellowship program at Epcot in 1987/88. After working as an investment advisor for a bank, she eventually joined Disneyland Paris in 1991 as a retail manager and ran multiple merchandise locations in the Resort division. She eventually joined the Merchandise Buying Office and oversaw the assortment planning for all Resort merchandise locations at Disneyland Paris.

Upon moving to Florida in 1997, Valerie worked as the Assortment Planning Manager at Downtown Disney and Epcot Center. She eventually moved to Merchandise Brand Management for both Epcot and the Disney Cruise Line. Valerie left the company and started consulting for outside organizations in the retail world. She returned to Disney in 2013 to become a contract facilitator for Disney Institute. She facilitated professional development classes and custom programs in both French and English. She drew from her international management experience in retail and operations to teach Disney’s approach to Leadership Excellence and Customer Service.

Since May 2019, Valerie has been a keynote speaker and facilitates workshops with her husband Dan. She shares her expertise and methodology in leading teams and delivering outstanding customer service. With her new book, Manage like a Mother, Valerie brings a simple to understand and easy-to-implement take on leadership inspired by a mother's playbook.

You can find more information about her book here .

You can email her at valerie@cockerellconsulting.coma and find out more about her consulting services here .

About the Episode:

In this episode, Dr. Whitney chats with Valerie Cockerell, author of Manage Like a Mother. They discuss how, as moms, we can be (and should be) confident in our ability to lead in the workplace, because we have so much experience leading as moms and because of our “mom skills” that can absolutely be translated into “boss skills.” They also chat about how women can stand out in their workplace by using the leadership skills they’re uniquely gifted in.

Episode Takeaways:

Women who have been in and out of the workforce constantly question, “Am I still relevant? Do my skills still matter?” But what we’ve regularly seen is that what is required to be a “great leader” is not much different than what it takes to be a great mom and what we do as moms. Both require things like healthy relationships with people, emotional intelligence, and coaching and developing other people.

Just like in parenting when you adjust the way you show love to your child, based on who they are and what they like and dislike, we need to adjust the way we show appreciation to those we are leading, based on who they are and how they operate.This is where emotional intelligence comes into play. You have to pay attention to feedback and nonverbal cues to understand them better so you can customize the way you’re showing appreciation.

Generally speaking, men approach leadership much differently than women do. And for decades, women came into the workforce thinking that, in order to be an effective leader and move up the corporate ladder, they needed to lead and behave like men.

Recently, studies have shown that servant leadership and emotional intelligence are better approaches–both of which women are uniquely prepared with, often because of motherhood. Men need to recognize and see the value in that and leverage the fact that women bring a new leadership approach. And when you combine the two approaches, that’s when there is wealth, success, and power.

You are the most powerful when you are yourself. When you show up as your authentic self and when you help to raise up other women to be their most authentic selves in the workplace and to bring everything that they are, that’s when you’ll make systemic societal change in the workplace.

REAL-TALK ABOUT KIDS' SLEEP (AND WHY ONE-SIZE-FITS-ALL ADVICE DOESN'T WORK)

By asterbenc • July 29, 2025

About the Episode: In this eye-opening episode of the Modern Mommy Doc podcast, Dr. Whitney Casares sits down with child sleep experts Dr. Andrea Roth and Dr. Allison Shale—two clinical psychologists and co-authors of The Essential Guide to Children’s Sleep: A Tired Caregiver’s Workbook for Every Age and Stage (written with Dr. Shelby Harris) . Together, they break down the myths, shame, and unrealistic expectations that surround slee p training and offer compassionate, evidence-based advice that actually meets parents where they are. This episode is your permission slip to stop blaming yourself, throw out the cookie-cutter advice, and start working with your child’s unique temperament, challenges, and developmental stage—whether that means defiant toddlers, anxious middle-schoolers, or non-sleeping newborns. About Our Guests: Dr. Andrea Roth and Dr. Allison Shale are licensed clinical psychologists and moms who specialize in child and adolescent mental health. Together with co-author Dr. Shelby Harris, they created The Essential Guide to Children’s Sleep to give exhausted parents the tools to support their kids’ sleep with confidence, flexibility, and empathy. Their approach is grounded in science—and shaped by real-life parenting. Follow them on Instagram: @essentialkidssleep Key Takeaways: Why this sleep book is different It’s written by clinical psychologists, not influencers—and it combines science, flexibility, and real-world parenting experience. How your child’s daytime behavior impacts nighttime sleep From anxious kids to defiant or ADHD children, the team explains why your child’s personality and emotional regulation during the day matters more than you think at bedtime. The truth about sleep “milestones” You’ll learn why your two-week-old shouldn’t be sleeping through the night, why “wake windows” are often misused, and why transitioning to a toddler bed before age 3 might be setting everyone up to fail. The importance of timing and readiness Parents don’t have to sleep train when they’re already overwhelmed. These experts offer a refreshing take on how to assess if now is the right time—and how to set up for success. What works for toddlers (and what doesn’t) You’ll hear how techniques like the “break method” and “camping out” can be adapted based on your child’s age and developmental stage. How to support anxious or defiant older kids at bedtime The language we use matters. For anxious kids, it's all about reducing pressure and focusing on rest. For defiant or ADHD kids, clear expectations and behavior-based plans are key. The shame-free approach every tired caregiver needs Sleep doesn’t have to be a battleground—or a place for guilt. These authors bring compassion and practicality to every step of the process. 📩 Subscribe to The Modern Mommy Doc Podcast for more episodes on parenting with confidence and clarity. L eave a review using the hashtag #ModernMommyDoc.